Tangle

A few years ago , A colleague of mine went home to start a business , At that time, we did software development together , He finds work boring , I decided to go back to my hometown and start a business , At that time, his entrepreneurial project was retail project , I left and went back to prepare for a few months , Just like the entrepreneurial bosses we see , At that time, he also went to dig a senior engineer to work with him , Give stock , Painted flowers . And brought his girlfriend , After more than a year, I was tired and lost money , Then I went back to Shenzhen to work .

Entrepreneurship is not a simple thing , And entrepreneurship requires painstaking efforts 、 It's very stressful . But for him , It had little effect on him , Continue to work for more than a year , He bought a house in Shenzhen , Had a baby , The work is also very good .

I just want to understand this thing later , Why do some people have a lot of concerns when choosing , A lot of thinking . Different people have different family backgrounds 、 The stress of work and life will also be different , So in the face of choice , Thinking will be different . Like my colleague , His family background is very good , He has little pressure from home , And on many big things , His family can support him .

Many things are seen later , I don't think those things are worth mentioning , But at that time , What's happening , It's really important . I still remember my first job hopping , I called my college senior brother , I told him what I thought , He gave me some good advice , I propose to the leader to leave , The leader also told me what he thought . At that time , It's really tangled , Will you change your job? I don't adapt to , Will colleagues not like themselves , Will the year-end bonus not be like what I said during the interview , But now I think back to the decision at that time , I think it's funny , Because now I see , At that time, no matter how you choose , Must be right .

Take a long view .

I used to quarrel with so and so , Always say that so and so has a shallow vision , We should look further , But how can you see far , You need to think for yourself . There must also be accumulation and thinking .

Tell me about this classmate offer contrast , The salary part is actually about the same , The technical direction is also similar .

Then let's think further , In Xi'an , Life has the original family , You can get along with your family , I'll have a baby later , At least the family can help see , This is a very realistic problem .

Sometimes it's too far away , Far hydrolyze but not near thirst , The problem arises . So if it's me , I will choose Xi'an without hesitation .